I heard a saying growing up: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” Although I get the meaning behind the saying, it is false. Words hurt! Words actually can leave a longer-lasting pain than broken bones. Lately, I have been getting constant signs about gossiping. I’ve had dreams, messages, and conversations about it. According to the Bible, gossiping is a sin, and according to Romans 1:29-32 it is one of a few sins “worthy of death.”
I can remember many times when the words of others hurt me. I am not always predictable when offended, but that does not mean that the words didn’t hurt. Words hurt! Verbal abuse from parents, loved ones, friends, strangers, and affiliates. Another saying I heard growing up: “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” That one is true. I am much quieter now because I think of this saying when someone upsets me.
It is a good reminder for me to hush because I know the words I want to say will leave an unforgettable mark. Have you gossiped or slandered anyone lately? Have you verbally abused someone? If so, it is the perfect time to ask God to forgive you and to let those you’ve hurt know you are sorry. Verbal abuse can leave a long-lasting effect on the people you do it to.
This week I challenge you to practice removing yourself from conversations that are gossip-filled. Work on the way you talk to others if you are the type that says hurtful things. Your delivery of words can also hurt someone so work on that as well. We all have work to do so get to it. Have a great week!